Sorry for these vague questions, just trying to figure out what's going on. The hypocrisy, projection, and double standards, and lack of self-awareness was truly disgusting. I was devastated, but the feelings I had for him were still full throttle, so I took him back. It's easy to know he is staring at you because of his big, tantalizing eyes. Looks like her friend wants to be a whore. I found it downstairs of the restaurant. I told him,, hey maybe in Lebanon you can treat your woman like a prositute or a whore.
Congratulations the whtie men finally made you turn against us also, first they did it with the africans then indians, now its our turn. He said lets go in the mens bathroom. I worshiped him, as being so wonderful. My belief in all men is completely non existent, esp as I told him that all I need from his side is for him to be faithful…what I learnt from this is key to all women out there dating these shady men: 1. I read so many stories of how wonderful and how deep a connection we have all felt with a Leb Man, his affairs said the same about him that is the problem….
He expressed he wanted to see me at least 3-4 times a week minimum. Always busy with family but more so with working and building his empire. Once i think he was talkin about me cuz he was lookin at me n i was lookin at him then he was sayin sumthin to his friend and his friend turned around and looked at me then turned bak to him. Please flair your post appropriately. If the jealousy gets on your nerve, then you need to talk to him? In terms of my history, I dated a couple guys before him but still remained a virgin and told him all about those experiences. Im hating on arabic ppl nor the men at all! Because he has told me of his culture he came from Jordan that they can have 4 wives but treat them all equal. Fifth, Lebanese men are very stuborn,each one stick to his idea even if they know it is wrong,probably becasue thats related to their tribes or their political point view.
After about 4mos of this I let him go. He then sends me an e-mail on the evening of Cinco de Mayo after no texts, no phone calls from either of us explaining himself. Took me five years to get away from him finally. They tend to mix freely too- marriagewise. I doubt my X will ever feel that unique passion we shared so we know deep inside its our memory. I have also noticed that Lebanese people are in general very materialistic and some of them are just plain hard headed garbage, both men and women.
Every time I cut it with him he gets angry then continues to contact me next day. We were good and i thought nothing was wrong. You are not the Sultan and whatever applies to her applies to you as well. Sure they will keep you, but thats it, as deep as the love was you once felt from them, as is the devastation of being devalued day after day. Set a time limit too, if he comes back after say six months, its too late buddy! First , is this really a cultural thing for leb muslim men cause all of them that i know here is doing the same marrying 2 wife without telling the first and they dont want to divorce the first they seem like to keep the two.
I also see his drama and his love of friends and such but I promise ladies you reach a point in life and you see that having your man be involved with harmless and good things outside of your marriage will make your relationship stronger. Do not despair ladies, there is a god, and he comes in the form of the travelled and cultured lebanese man, the homebrewed kind is simply trash. Hope you the best in you love life Ivy. I was really suprised because it was so sudden he never did that before except for lunch. Sign up today and find the friend or soul mate you've been dreaming of.
I am also a South African married to a lebanese guy for 5 years now with 2 kids! I have never dated Arabic men before. He is in vacation right now in leb for 3 mos. Do not expect him to stop wearing Thobe, because he won't. Your ex was wrong and you are doing the same by stereotyping the Lebanese as your ex did with Jews. I was very welcomed and apart of his family.
You won't have to worry whether or not he wants to have kids one day. Not all Arab men are chauvinistic and treat women like crap. And to also mention that one of his friends like me and the guy I like at work that I been talking about tries to outrule his friend. I only knew something like seven proud virgins in my life. He is sometimes affectionate in his texts, like sending hearts and kisses and asking me how I am feeling often. I know I have to utterly finish it with him otherwise I am going to be controlled by him. However he always wants to come over to my house but doesn't want to bring me around his house that he shares with his brother and his other Arabic friends.